I envy gray-haired women. Seriously. It’s not that I wish I had gray hair. I already do. Anyone who knows me has seen it peeking periodically from my center part and my temples.
But I envy those sisters whose hair is completely natural. Uncolored. They have no worries about maintaining dyed strands. They’re totally free from the whole thing -competition, color, maintenance…
My older sister has gray hair. Well, not really. It’s silver! And it is gorgeous! She never has to monitor her roots. She doesn’t spend money on salon color appointments. Or home touch-ups. (That would be me.) She is liberated from it all. And she is beautiful!
I want that. I want the freedom to be me the way I really am. (At least my hair.)
But, unlike women whose hair was allowed to mature naturally, I must now, somehow, figure out how to make the transition from Medium Neutral Brown to gray. What’s a girl to do?
Have you noticed that in a salon you can get any color you want? Except gray? They say it’s impossible, but I don’t believe it. Not for a minute. I think professional hair dressers just don’t dare help women color their hair gray, because – I suspect – there’d be a stampede of women going that route. What would that do to the hair-coloring industry?
I tried it once, a few years ago. I asked to have my hair streaked gray. Can’t be done, I was told. So my stylist gave me “highlights” instead. It was an ugly, yellow, and very expensive, disaster. I couldn’t wait to get home with my Wal-mart box of Clairol to repair the damage.
Then, I was again back to square one.
Hero says he doesn’t mind my hair either way. But he also says that, if I really want to make the change, I should let it grow out a little to start the process, and then get a really short haircut. He also says that when he retires, he’s not going to shave or get a haircut for a year. Maybe I’ll wait to tackle the hair issue til then, cuz I’m certain at that point no one will be looking at me.
See how complicated life can get when you start messing with Mother Nature? Sigh. I want gray hair. But how do I get there? Other than a wig.
Am I the only one who feels this way? Somehow, I’m certain I’m not alone. Especially since Susan Boyle’s audition.